How to Communicate With Spirits: A Shamanic Practitioner's Guide
Learning how to communicate with spirits is one of the most foundational and most misunderstood aspects of Shamanic practice. Whether you are a beginning practitioner drawn to Shamanism for the first time, a healer wanting to deepen your collaborative relationship with the more-than-human realm, or a spiritual seeker trying to understand the strange, subtle communications you have already been receiving, this guide is for you. Spirit communication is not a mysterious gift available only to a select few. It is a skill — one with clear principles, learnable techniques, and an ethical framework that makes the difference between safe, meaningful communion and confusion. Let’s dive in and I’ll walk you through some of the key principles I teach in the Foundations of Shamanism course about how to communicate with spirits.
The Foundation: Non-Hierarchical, Respectful Communication
The first and most important principle of communicating with spirits is this: approach with humility and respect.
Humans have a long history of assigning hierarchy to intelligence — privileging the large-brained cognitive mind above all other forms of knowing. But in Shamanic practice, we recognize that every living being is an expert of their own particular niche. The slime mold, the Hemlock tree, the river, the Archangel — each has a form of intelligence and awareness that is real, valid, and worth approaching with humility.
This applies across the full spectrum of beings — not just those that society might view as “lesser” or “more primitive” than humanity, but also those we might view as more powerful. In my own years of practice, even the most powerful spirits I have worked with — Archangels, Dragons, ancient lineage teachers — hold a genuine and remarkable respect for humanity. The relationship feels profoundly collaborative. Mutual.
Many years ago, I met Archangel Michael face to face in a meditation. His presence filled my vision with eye-watering intensity, and I immediately felt both awe-struck and intimidated. As I sat there shock, I felt waves of power rippling through my body. Archangel Michael then spoke to me gently and introduced himself as a friend and ally. He invited me to call upon him for myself and my Shamanic healing clients. Since then, I have invited him in many times to support deep healing work, and I have witnessed the incredible potency of his medicine. But while his protection is absolute and his energy is fierce when needed, he is truly a respectful friend to humanity, and generous with his care.
Understanding the Nature of Spirit Communication
Before learning how to communicate with spirits, it helps to understand what the communication actually is — and isn't.
Spirit communication is non-cognitive.
Spirit communication does not happen through the analytical mind. It happens through the subtle body, the instincts, the primal consciousness — the part of you that processes approximately 40 billion bits of data per second, compared to your conscious mind's 40 bits of data per second. Your animal body, your etheric body, your dreaming awareness is one billion times more intelligent and aware than your cognitive mind. Spirit communication happens there.
It is present and immediate.
The spirit realm communicates in the here and now. Information, healing transmissions, and messages arrive in the present moment. If you are reaching backward into the past or projecting into the future, you will miss what is being offered right now.
It requires stepping outside of your ordinary self.
There is an element of shape-shifting in Shamanic practice. To communicate with spirits, we step outside of our conditioned human identity — the named, known, role-playing self — and into our Gaian self, our animal body, the part of us that exists in genuine relationship with all life. This is not losing yourself. It is finding a deeper version of yourself that already knows how to do this.
What Gets in the Way: Barriers to Spirit Communication
Understanding what blocks communication is just as important as knowing what opens it. Common barriers include:
Hierarchical or consumptive expectations — coming to the spirits with “give me, fix me, help me” rather than genuine relationship.
Violating the laws of Earth — free will, consent, sovereignty, sanctity of life. If a spirit signals it doesn't want to interact, that boundary must be honored.
Living primarily in the analytical mind — distracted, overthinking, not present in the body.
Self-criticism and performance anxiety — worrying about whether you're doing it right shuts down the very channel you're trying to open.
Anthropomorphizing — assigning human values or expectations to non-human spirits prevents you from meeting them on their own terms.
Excessive eagerness — trying so hard to have a cool experience that you actually shut it down.
When you notice these barriers arising, the response is not self-judgment — it is compassion. Acknowledge it, shake it off, find something that makes you laugh, relax, and try again.
Three Types of Spirit Relationships
Not all of your relationships with spirits look the same, and understanding these distinctions helps you orient appropriately.
Coexistence
The vast majority of spirit relationships are coexistence — passive sharing of space. There are spirits everywhere, all the time, and we simply coexist with most of them. You wave to your neighbors but you don't have deep relationships with all of them. Same principle. (We also coexist with many shadow spirits, but I’ll save that for another article.)
Allyship
Allyship is the majority of your active, intentional spirit relationships. You are a student and collaborator of the spirit's medicine. You work with their wisdom, make offerings, tend their altars, receive their transmissions. You do not need to be a formal initiate to work with a spirit ally in a deeply meaningful way. Allyship is rich.
Initiated Partnership
The closest, most serious form of spirit relationship — and the least common for good reason. Initiated partnerships involve a merge-field experience, a transmission of the spirit's power and medicine into your energy body and spiritual codes. This requires years of apprenticeship, deep commitment, and careful discernment. Having too many of these relationships can make it difficult to maintain equilibrium in your own energy body. These spirit relationships are not better or more desirable than Allyships. Initiated Partnerships should be approached with tremendous deliberation.
Let’s look at an example of these spirit relationships from the land where I live outside Portland, Oregon. This land is home to many spirits and more-than-human beings. I am aware of their presence, and we have a “good neighbor” agreement of respectfully sharing the space. We live in harmonious coexistence.
I have also cultivated Allyships with many of the spirits and beings of this land. More than simply coexisting, we live in mutual reciprocity. I make offerings to particular trees and anchor prayers with their help. I tend to the forest and harvest many plants to make medicines. I restore native plants as food for the animals, and invite their energy into my sessions with clients.
One of my spiritual Initiated Partnerships is with Owl. (If you’ve been following my work for a while, you’ve heard this story before.) In 2017, Owl initiated me into their medicine by attacking me, then offering the most profound ancestral healing I have received yet to date. After Owl initiated me into their frequency, I experienced a profound deepening of my psychic capacity and other activations. Since I received an initiation directly from Owl, I am able to share their medicine directly with clients during healing sessions. The Initiated Partner spiritual relationships I have are tremendously powerful, but the Allyships I share with many beings are also powerful and deeply rewarding.
Know Who You Are Working With
One of the most important — and most overlooked — principles of safe spirit communication is this: understand the context, values, and paradigm of the spirits you are working with.
Not all spirits operate within the same framework. Earth-based beings inherently abide by the laws of Earth: free will, consent, sovereignty, the sacredness of life. But a spirit who has never incarnated on this planet may not know what it feels like to live in a human or Gaian body. Their guidance and energetic transmissions may not be comfortable or compatible with your physical safety.
This is not meant to create fear — the vast majority of spirit communication is beautiful and benevolent. But it is a reason to approach new spirit relationships with the same boundaried awareness you would bring to any new relationship. Get to know them first. Ask about their values, their intentions, how they work. Then, from that foundation, invite in greater energetic closeness.
How to Receive Spirit Communication
Through the clairs (inner perception), including:
Clairsentience (clear feeling) — sensing presence, body temperature changes, pressure, or a quality of aliveness.
Clairvoyance (clear seeing) — visions, images, symbols.
Clairaudience (clear hearing) — words, tones, sounds.
Claircognizance (clear knowing) — direct knowing that arrives without a sensory channel.
There are many more clairs, but these are some of the most common. Open yourself to the many ways in which you might perceive spiritual communication.
Through the outer world (signs and omens):
Environmental changes — temperature, air movement, vibration, weather.
Wind moving through trees after a prayer.
Animal visitations — a bird appearing overhead, a butterfly landing at exactly the right moment.
Unusual smells, sounds, or light at the edge of vision.
Finding feathers, stones, or other meaningful objects.
Messengers and signs — two people mention dolphins to you in the same week, you see images of dolphins everywhere.
The Omen Walk: A Simple Practice for Receiving Guidance
One of the most accessible and simple practices for receiving spirit communication is the omen walk or prayer walk. It is simply a walk without a destination or mission — a moving meditation in open, subtle awareness.
To do an omen walk: begin with a moment of pause at your starting point. Pose a question or an invitation to the spirits. Then walk in an open, trance-like state of receptive awareness — allowing your feet to carry you, dropping out of the analytical mind, and noticing whatever draws your attention. When you return, close the practice with gratitude and step back into full present-time awareness, reflecting on what you noticed.
Over time, the omen walk becomes one of your most reliable channels for receiving guidance, clarity, and connection with the living world.
Making Offerings: The Reciprocal Side of Communication
Spirit communication is a two-way relationship. Making offerings — gifts of gratitude, prayers, physical and immaterial gifts of your attention and life force — is one way you can show up as a generous, devoted participant rather than a consumer.
There are three types of offerings: gratitude offerings (appreciation and connection), votive offerings (specific requests for support or guidance), and feasting offerings (transpersonal, given with no personal agenda, purely as generosity to the Earth and the spirit realm). I’ll share another article on how to make offerings — stay tuned!
Your most powerful magical currency is your attention, your aliveness, and your care. When these are genuinely present in an offering — however simple — the communication is real.
Go Deeper — Shamanic Support for Your Journey
Spirit communication is one of many skills developed in the Foundations of Shamanism course — my 11-week live online Shamanic training program. We develop practices like the ones described here, and build systematically toward Shamanic journeying, cultivating spirit guide communication, healing work, and more. Join the wait list and be the first to know when registration opens this fall!
More ways to receive support:
→ Shamanic Healing sessions — for deep personal healing work.
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→ Foundations of Shamanism course — my 11-week live online Shamanic training program.
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